Friday, December 7, 2012

Explanation.



HELLO!!
Thank you all for ur amazing feedback here and on twitter I really appreciate it! And for all of who asked..
YES it’s a true story.
 I only made up what was said in the voice notes, what was said between them as conversations and I changed the names of the characters of course!!

What was said on the day that Zaina died in IS TRUE, ITS WHAT SHE SAID AND WHAT FARIS REPLIED.

Faris lost Zaina two years ago, Faris refused to move to a new house, He still looks at her window every time he leaves the house, He doesn’t admit it to everyone but he still listens to Zaina voice notes when he misses her, he still smiles to himself when he thinks of her, He breaks down every once in a while but the love around him from his family and friends is lifting him up.

Zaina passed away and all what Faris has left is the voice notes, pictures and captures, nothing else.

I took his persimmon  to write the story, He knows that I'll post the story but he doesn’t know where!

The whole point of me writing the story is not so you would feel sorry for Faris, It's because you need to focus on the little things in life, You should give your loved ones the attention that they need, life is too short and we need to live it happily and be good to one another, go tell the people that you love that you care about them and that you appreciate having them in your life, they need to hear that every once in a while..    

*Last point..
If you got any comments for him, any supporting and positive words I'll make sure that he reads them,  If you got any questions you may ask, I hope that none of you start posting random names or predicting who my characters are…those comments will be deleted!
Thank you all so much.  

49 comments:

  1. The only thing i have to tell him is stay strong :(

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  2. This kind of love is so rare :( hes amazing

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  3. ambaaa :/ alllah yer7amha

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  4. Tell him not to feel guilty kl a7d ygool ashya2 they don't mean when they are angry or upset and clearly she doesn't mean them !! Oo Allah y'3frlaha oo yr7mha oo y9bra

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  5. I so agree with the comment above!!! he really shouldnt feel guilty :(
    -M

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  6. Tell him that when God takes something away from you, it means he's emptying your hands to give you something better. None of us live a perfect life. None of us got what we wanted, and we might never get what we want, but there's always that small thing inside that's hoping for the best. I lost a dear person a couple of months ago and I cry every once in a while. Crying doesn't mean you're weak, it means that you've been strong for too long. I get up every night at 3 am to pray '9alat il layl' ou a6leb for the person I lost, and then go back to sleep then wake up again for 9alat ilfajer. I am so sorry that you are hurting. I don't know how you feel but I do know that you are in pain. I can't say I know how you feel because know one knows how others feel, even though they went through the same phase. I'm sorry for his loss and it's not his fault that she died. She's in a better place now. All I wanted to say that don't let the guilt eat you up. Allah yer7amha we'3amid rou7'ha iljanna xxo

    -sorry its a long comment:c

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    1. Wow ur comment really touched me, Allah y3eench!!
      I'll make sure that he reads what you said, thank you SO MUCH!!

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  7. This is so sad!! Alla yer7amhaa:'(

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  8. tell faris...this little comforting thought.. from me and my sister... he lost her through death and not through her marrying another man...she is in Jannah now and is no more suffering the pains of this world...when a person u love is taken away by being married to another person other than you, its worse than them being dead... because you'll see them still BUT WITH someone else...which is more heart breaking...so..give thanks to Allah faris.. :) Hope you cope well... She is a shaheed...so when u ever dream of her, know that she came to visit you... :)

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    1. Thank you so much for those words! and thank ur sister ;)
      I'll make sure he reads this!

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  9. Telk him that shes in a better place now :(

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  10. Bs 7bet agoulah stay stog and don't be weak kel shay qattha2 w qadar w she's in better hands now w enshala tkoun merta7a bl mukan ele ehya feh w allah ynawer 3leha gaberha w y5aleh routh min ryath eljanah w enshala. Legahom bel jannah ..Allah ysa3dah w yhawin 3leh w yarzig zainah elfirdous ela3lah w yathkerha bkl khair w b2a7la du3a2 ..
    اللهم أرحم موتأنا و متى المسلمين
    -faith

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    1. Ameeeen!!
      i'll make sure he reads this, thank you Faith❤

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  11. Tell him that ena ma3a 3usr yusra and ena Allah ya5eth o ya36y o Allah yer7amha o y'3amed roo7ha el jana!!!!
    Jad the story made me cry!!!

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  12. Oh god, this is exactly what I wanted :'( a fountain of tears.
    I'm so sorry for his loss it's so sad bas 8addar allah w masha2 fa3al. Only god knows what is better for us ..
    Allah yr7amha w allah y9abr ahalha w faris.

    -A

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  13. كلما تعلقت بشخص تعلقاً .. أذاقك الله مر التعلق، لتعلم أن الله يغار على قلب تعلق بغيره، فيصدك عن ذاك ليرُدك إليه. #الإمام الشافعى

    allah ysahel 3alaik o allah yably 3abdah ily y7ebah ... atmana ina ily 9aaar garebak 3nd rabik akthar o ana mit2akda ina hal shay ra7 ykhalek insan aqwa o a7san!! o ildenya g9eeera ma tswaa ina t'6ayaaag

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  14. All I can say stay strong she's in a better place now allah yr7mha w y'3frlaha as Reveu said "when god takes something away it means he's emptying your hand to give something better" ma atw83 fe 7ub nfs 7ub faris its rare !! I lost some one special a year a go I still cry when I remember him or see his pictuers but all I can do ena ad3el
    اللهم أرحم موتانا و موتى المسلمين

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    1. Alllah y9abrich :(
      Thank you for ur words, i'll make sure he reads this!

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  15. hey there =) tell him that ne7n bashar maa negdar ngool '3air enna lellah w enna elayh raje3oon w that was her time. she loved him and if she knew that el3etab would be the last thing she says to him maa kanat 3atebat. elli ye7ib y3ateb wel 3etab dleel 3al ma7aba flaa tloom nafsek 3ala mashee2at rabik. elli a3rafa min elli graita 3anha enna she is a great person, and she loves to smile f akeed maa btre'6a enna thekraha ykoon shay ye7zenik. you are a good person so dont make a sad memory out of a beautiful soul. if she is anything, she would be a reason for you to smile and not a reason to shed tears. i know you miss her and she took part along with her so i wont ask you to forget her but take a look at the people that love you and are still here in the world, your family and friends...and you'll know what to do. today sir... you should look out the window and smile at her memory =) i know i did and i don't even know her.
    S.

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    1. Hi S ;)
      I loved the part about making a sad memory out of a beautiful soul!!! ur words touched me i'll make sure he reads this! thank you!

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  16. 9aloo7a that was incredible YALLA STANDING OVATION YAALLAA JDAMIIII?!!! .... I really missed you :"( I want you to tell him Ina hatha '3a6'a2 w'3adar and to always remember if he asks for musama7atha akeed ma batirfi6'ah wtdoom yad3eelha fee kil 9ala Kil am zaad du3a2ah kil Mazda the chance she visits him in his dreams and never loose his faith in Allah and never forget her always Keep her memory alive believe me if he loved her for all that time akeed sami7atk no one can resists that love :") Allah yr7amha wy'3amid roo7ah fee janat ilfrdoos wyamsi7 kil 5a6ayaha inshallah

    - Chocolate mn bgar ❤❤❤ P.S. I love 9aloo7a :***

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    1. THANK YOU!!!
      Ameen, thanks for ur words ill make sure that he reads this!
      Me too❤

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  17. Fares work hard to be in heaven with her ! Shinu a7la min inik titzawajha eb heaven ! Tabee tet7amal efragha ? Be closer to god w sadgny Allah ma yi5tibir Ella elsha59 ely e7eba Etha tabe etkoon happy be closer to god sib7anah

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  18. Allah yer7amha w mathwaha el jannah enshala, I would like to thank you 9al7a for posting this story because as you said we should tell the people we love what we feel! Im sure your story will make a big influence and to Faris magoulek ela hathy qesmat rabek w mabedek shay fa malek ela el du3a'a w bethn alllah mathwaha el jana..
    Again thank you 9al7a and great work, keep it up.

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    1. Ameen, No thank you for reading it! i really hope that it did!
      Thank you Bin 3agoul, ill make sure that he reads this ;)

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  19. Tell him allah ya5ith eljameel leyo36eek el2ajmal!

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  20. allah yr7amha <\3 this litterly broke my heart <\33

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  21. please tell him that he's a great man for loving her that much<3
    and don't forget الله اذا احب عبداً ابتلاه be strong and pray for her soul
    god bless you<3

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    1. Thank you so much for ur words, I'll make sure he reads this!

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  22. Hey, I just read that. '3a'6am allah ajrah, it's really sad. All I wanted to say to Faris is to keep smiling, and be closer to god, never loose faith in god, 5aly yd3eelha in every prayer, god made this because of a reason, this is a lesson if he met someone else and loved her, he don't keep her waiting or do what she really hates, and I'm SURE that Zaina is in a better place and all she need is du3a2. I realllyyyy hope he gets better and keep going in life. I wish you would tell him that ;* اللهم ارحم موتنا و موت المسلمين.

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  24. heeyyy im a new reader oo garait all your stories in 3 days :$ when is the next story and 3ady ta36eeny ur twitter acc? :( thankkyoooouuu <33

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  25. Faris you shouldn't feel guilty at all bl 3ax lazim td3elaha w hatha elly allah katbah ,allah yer7amha

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  26. tell him: there are things in god's hands w hay yomha .. Mahma 9ar hay yomha w its not his fault .. W allah y9abrah 3ala frag'ha .. and i think that its best if he deletes everything that has to do with her so that he would move on, because her pics, voice notes, and window will just break his heart more and that way he'll hurt himself and won't move on.. I'm sure she wants him to always be happy and to be strong and to move on <3 Allah ywafgah w y9abrah 3ala frag'ha w ygawy galbah. W inshalla yarab yer7amha w ythabet'ha 3end elso2al w yej3al gaberha ro'9a mn rya'9 eljana yaraab <3

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  27. Tell him that bljanna, kl wa7d bykoun 3nda "7our 3ain". Ele y7b btkoun 7abebta 7awra2ta bljanna. She's only gone for a while<3

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  28. I just read the story w 3atham Allah ajiriha inshallah they'll meet in heaven w he really shouldn't blame his self because if she knew that it was the last chat between them she wouldn't end it in that way w the way he loved her was so rare so I guess she was a lucky person to have someone love her like him w if he fells that he is missing her pray for her w inshallah mithwaha iljana

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  29. Mt25Ra i know bs please tell him الله مايبتلي الا العبد اللي يحبه و ان شاء الله ان الله حرمه منها في الدنيا عشان يجمعهم بالاخره و لازم ما توقف حياته عليها لان اكيد خيره اللي صار لها و الله يجمعهم ببعض فجنات النعيم

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  30. يا ليت تخبرينه يحذف كل شيء خاص فيها لان ما كان يجمعهم شيء بالحلال و اخاف تتعذب بسبب هالاشياء و اكيد يتعذب هو بعد و ما يصير يعلق نفسه بالماضي اذا يحبها صدق خل يدعي لها و الله يصبره و يرحمها و يغفر لها يارب

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